where's my slim ginger pirate boy?

Would he exist anywhere, he'd be 20-28 y/o, about that range. Ginger or ginger blonde, freckles,rather a skinny type like of sk8ter, surfer dude, cute cleanshaven, rather long haired and with at least a will to tolerate masculine fetish clothes. If he had many a fetish intrest himself, may be an ideal. He could well be an Alpha-Leader personality type, knowing himself a free or wild kind of mind.
I will not infringe his freedom in space, time or choice.
He comes from a moderate or low income social enviornment and doesn't put much an importance to material things... except of some latent passion to maraude fancy ships, maybe... 8o)

He doesn't mind me for an older companion of big shape and he would understand and support weight loss. I wouldn't exspect something like loving relationship. It would be okay if there's a natural development toward this, but I'm a realist, and some friendship-like buddy thing may be more rational than the fancy bit on equal love. I will not affront any working relationship if he should be in the constellation of Bi-sexual married or have a BF he loves. I can understand this and if it was up to some few cuddles off and on, I won't ask for more.

He likes to write and talk a lot. Some mindset based on conversation and romantics rather than blunt sexual drives would be kewl. He can be sensual and kewl in one person without to be twisted, braggy or bitchy. He's not a violent or choleric kind of dude, but more the opposite, easygoing, laid back and peace-surf / beach kind of guy. He likes to be funny at it's times and he can be somewhat of a melancholic just the same. He could share some of my hobbies and intrests, as they're into sciences, surfing, discussion, fishing, hunting,the beach life, cultures and the outdoors,´creative arts, music, producing music, songwriting, writing stories and the like.

I would consider relocation to countries like Canada, NZ, AU, englishspeaking places if it was necessary to be with my ginger pirate dude.

In case he might exist anywhere at all, would be keen on some gingerboy pirate message...